Yes Shocking Truth…Your Problem is Actually Launch Pad To Success…
A woman of 34 wakes up rolls over and wonders who the person next to her is.
A man of 38 is looking at a picture of his wife and kids, asking himself “is this it”?
A woman of 26 cuts herself to numb the pain.
A woman of 32 snorts another line, she only does it at the weekend, only with her mates, only to fit in and only too forget.
A young man of 29 is standing by a window, sighs, sits down and twists the cap on another large bottle of whiskey.
A woman of 31 takes another bite, this is all the love she needs, still she feels hollow inside.
A man of 44 sends the text and wonders if it is possible to love two women at the same time.
These are all Lijeke clients (pronounced lie-gee-key). Separate yet connected like leaves in a tornado of despair. They are about to learn how their problems are actually their key to success.
Hi, I’m Jeraline George a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and founder of Lijeke Creative Counselling.
Things looking pretty bad right now…
It seems like the whole world is a success apart from you?
- unsettled
- jaded about life
- suffer severe mood swings
- having feelings of depression
- struggling with self identity
- reassessing your life purpose
I was reading ‘Shortlist’ magazine the other day an article quoted 55 per cent of Britons suffered from depression and 59 per cent it’s evil sister anxiety.
If you’re having a “Thrisis” (30’s life crisis)…it’s not your fault…but it is your problem.
Maybe:
- you’re life is lacking purpose and you’re fighting the sense that you haven’t ‘made it’…
- you’ve achieved those goals, still inside, there’s an emptiness and you don’t know what to do next…
- you’ve found ‘the one’, are confused as you’re not sure if they are ‘the one’ anymore…
- you’re feeling ‘stuck’ with the choices you’ve made, treading water and not moving forward …
- you’re bored with the career, the life you created and who you believe you are is crumbling before your eyes…
Or Maybe:
- you’re trying to find real fulfilment versus a great-paying job…
- you’re questioning if (or when) to get married, save marriage, have a family or can no longer cope with the problems in your sex life…
- you’re undecided if you should go it alone as you haven’t found ‘the one’ and that biological clock is ticking fast…
You’ve read load of self-help books, looked at magazines and your mates kind words can’t change the way you feel…it’s still really hard to get through this challenging and chaotic time, which maybe having a knock on affect on other areas in your life.
Time is of the essence here…
So I hope for you that your 30s life crisis is over as quickly as possible, as this situation is painful…You may say…”others have more problems than me” really… well that’s a lie…
Feeling depressed, chaotic, angry; lost or empty during a thrisis absolutely normal and perfectly natural. So if you’ve got that terrible sense of not feeling like your ‘old self’… you’re not alone!
The hurricane of a ‘thrisis’ is not pleasant. It stops you from moving on, being your true self, living a life of excitement and potentially holding you back from ‘true love’. It’s like the mid life crisis women and men go through as they dally with the ‘last fandango’ of their youth. Buying a porche, becoming a cougar, listening to the latest 50 Cent album or clubbing on a Friday night and taking a Class ‘A’ drug.
Coping with (a car crash) which is what I call a life crisis sucks big time…
You know there has to be some secret to overcoming this and your instinct is dead-on because…
As you read these pages you’ll quickly see there is a creative and easy way to deal with your problem… so you no longer have to feel down, trapped or confused. As creative counselling with me will let you find out what’s really wrong and how to solve it.
Best of all you wont’ have to cope with it alone anymore.
Because no matter how good you are at sorting out other people’s problems and being ‘their rock’, or what kind of problems you’ve had in the past…
You’re about to discover how to…
“Rapidly Remove Your Personal Chaos”
And triumph in answering questions like:
- Who is the true me?
- What do I really want?
- Can I really have it?
- How can I communicate better with him/her?
- Do I really love him/her anymore?
Best of all, you’ll do it…
…without comfort eating
…without getting wasted on drink and drugs
…without self harming
…without getting under someone to get over someone
…without shouting at your partner or kids
…without turning into a workaholic to avoid ‘him/her’
…without turning into a boring self absorbed person
See your problems as an opportunity with the support of creative counselling at Lijeke to understand worries so you can explore your beliefs, values, dreams and how you may have changed.
“Me..? See A Counsellor…You’re Joking, Right…”
You’re perfectly right to ask…is this even for real?
If I wasn’t an eye witness to the changes my clients have made over the last 9 years in a short space of time, frankly I wouldn’t believe it either. I’ll be honest with; I know how you feel as I’ve been there too.
Still, don’t let your natural skepticism stand in the way of this unique chance to solve your problem and prevent them from occurring in the future. As the strategies that I share with you at Lijeke will result in other’s noticing, you will get good feed back. So any feelings of shame, guilt, grief, weakness, low self-esteem that you feel right now…due to the difficulties you are going through… you’ll need.
Here’s What It Means For You…
Be part of an elite group who transform personal tragedies into triumphs. Like painters turning a blank canvas into a beautiful painting… You too can easily turn that anger, shame, frustration, depression; into excitement, adventure and acceptance. As you take responsibility for your life, your emotions, face your fears, meet new people and embrace new experiences.
The secrets and tips I reveal are easy to implement. They will give you a fresh perspective on your mindset, how the problem arose and how to solve it…so you can gain relief or even remove the problem in less time than you’ve had the problem for.
And you know from experience when you’re not on ‘top form’ those around you can sometimes behave like jackals feeding off a carcass…
Honing in on your weak spots…manipulating you…taking your kindness…your confusion… for a weakness…
The sad fact is the merciless trail of the emotional chaos you are going through, can play games with your mind and damage your self-esteem.
You’re tired …isolating yourself… fed up of your life…
Imagine more months or years feeling depressed, unsettled, insecure and wondering ‘Why is this happening to me?’…
Suddenly those arguments with your partner are worse… it’s now just a case of who walks first… the bad mood, insomnia and other nervous exhaustion symptoms are taking their toll…not only are you mentally drained…not seeing your friends …you’re gaining weight too…that feeling of sadness is evolving into a black depression and you’re finding it harder to climb out of it.
You feel alone. Your life is falling apart. You can’t see anyway out of this chaos…
But this won’t be you…
Let me introduce to Tania (of course I’ve changed her name…), she called to make an appointment with me. Although Tania had a great job, a caring husband and active social life; she was depressed and couldn’t understand why life seemed to be turning darker…
Tania – Quality Controller (Fashion): 36, attended for nervous exhaustion symptoms and feelings of depression
“When I came to work with Jeraline I was very sad. She helped me to learn to enjoy taking up space in the world, and not feel guilty about who I am. She didn’t allow me to fake it”.
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